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Interview a Family Member

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This friendly interview activity helps children connect with a relative and capture family stories. It’s quick to set up, encourages listening and confidence, and creates a keepsake to look back on together.


Materials

  • Notebook or a few sheets of paper
  • Pencil or pen
  • Optional: family photo album for prompts

Tools

  • Phone or tablet with a voice recorder (optional)
  • Timer or clock (optional)

Steps

  1. Choose a family member to interview (in person, by phone, or on a video call) and agree on a short time window.
  2. Help the child brainstorm 5–10 simple questions and write them down. Examples: “What games did you love as a kid?”, “What was your favourite place to visit?”, “Who taught you something important?”, “What makes you laugh?”
  3. Set up a comfy, quiet spot. Start the timer if using one. Press record if you’re capturing audio (optional).
  4. Begin with a warm-up (“Please say your name and how we’re related”), then ask the first question clearly and wait for the full answer.
  5. Encourage follow-ups like “Why?”, “How did that feel?”, or “Can you tell me more about that?” Write a couple of key words or make a quick sketch as notes.
  6. If energy dips, swap roles for one question so the adult asks the child something fun (“What’s your favourite thing to play right now?”).
  7. Finish by saying thank you. If appropriate, take a small photo together or draw a quick portrait to stick next to the notes.
  8. Turn the notes into a keepsake: a one-page “Family News” report, a decorated interview card, or a short audio clip to share with the family.

Variations

  • Three-Question Mini Chat: Keep it super short with just three favourite questions.
  • Photo Prompt Interview: Pick a photo from an album and ask questions about the people and place in the picture.
  • Call a Relative: Do the interview by phone or video with a grandparent, aunt, or cousin who lives far away.
  • Role Reversal: Let the family member interview the child for one or two questions.
  • Story Recorder: Record audio (with permission) and add a simple title like “Grandad’s School Days”.
  • Recipe Memories: Ask about a favourite family food and note down any tips or stories linked to it.
  • Object Stories: Choose a meaningful object at home (a medal, toy, or souvenir) and build questions around it.

Why It’s Great

  • Listening skills – Practises focusing on another person’s words and ideas.
  • Confidence – Builds speaking, turn-taking, and polite conversation habits.
  • Family connection – Captures memories and strengthens relationships across generations.
  • Literacy – Encourages planning questions, note-taking, and summarising.
  • Easy keepsakes – Creates a simple page or audio clip to treasure and share.

Safety Tips

  • Ask permission before recording anyone. Delete or keep private if asked.
  • Avoid sharing personal details (addresses, passwords, full names online) without an adult’s approval.
  • Keep the conversation kind and allow anyone to skip a question they don’t want to answer.


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