Do the Dishes

Doing the dishes might not sound like a game — but for many children, especially younger ones, it can be a joyful, splashy activity.

With warm water, soapy bubbles, and a bit of responsibility, even a simple chore can turn into a meaningful moment. Children love to feel helpful, and getting involved in everyday routines builds confidence, coordination, and independence.

Whether it’s washing plastic cups, stacking dishes, or drying with a tea towel, there’s a job for every age — and it’s a great way to spend time together while getting something done.

Materials Needed

• Washing up bowl or sink with warm water
• Washing up liquid
• Plastic or unbreakable dishes for younger children
• Sponges or brushes
• Tea towels

Tools Needed

• Step stool (if needed to reach the sink)

Steps

1. Set Up the Space
   Fill a sink or washing-up bowl with warm soapy water and make sure your child can reach comfortably and safely.
2. Choose the Right Items
   Give them child-safe dishes, plastic cups or utensils to wash.
3. Wash and Rinse
   Let them wash with a sponge or cloth, then rinse clean. Expect some splashing — that’s part of the fun!
4. Dry and Put Away
   Older children can dry dishes or help return them to cupboards with supervision.
5. Celebrate Helping
   Thank them for their help and chat about how they’re part of the team.

Variations

• Role-Play Café: Pretend they’re the café washer-upper and on a big shift!
• Bubbles Galore: Add a bit of extra washing-up liquid and let them enjoy the sensory fun of the bubbles.
• Toy Wash: Wash play dishes, toy food or waterproof dolls alongside real dishes.
• Drying Race: With older kids, time how quickly (and carefully) they can dry and stack five items.

Safety Tips

• Always supervise young children around water and slippery floors.
• Use warm (not hot) water, and give younger children only unbreakable or lightweight items.
• Make sure stools or chairs used for reaching are stable and safe.
• Keep sharp or heavy utensils well out of reach.