Kids learning how to tie knots
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Learn a few classic knots with simple, visual challenges. It’s practical, great for fine motor skills, and a lovely way for parents and carers to coach calm, step-by-step problem-solving.


Materials

  • Short lengths of soft rope or cord (30–60 cm)
  • Old shoelaces or ribbon
  • Metal ring or carabiner (optional)
  • Wooden dowel or smooth stick
  • Paper or card for simple “knot cards”
  • Masking tape
  • Marker pen

Tools

  • Scissors (adult use or supervised)
  • Hole punch (optional, for cards)

Steps

  1. Set up: Cut a few cords and tape the ends to stop fraying. Draw quick picture cards for 3–5 knots (e.g., overhand, reef/square, figure-eight, clove hitch, bowline).
  2. Warm-up loop: Show how to make a simple loop and pull the end through for an overhand knot. Let everyone practise slowly.

    Overhand knot instructions (animatedknots.com)
  3. Join two ropes: Use two colours to teach a reef (square) knot—right over left, then left over right. Tug both ends to check it sits neat and flat.

    Square knot instructions (animatedknots.com)
  4. Stronger stopper: Make a figure-eight knot as a tidier stopper. Compare how it looks and feels versus the overhand.

    Figure of eight knot instructions (animatedknots.com)
  5. Around a stick: Wrap the cord around the dowel for a clove hitch (wrap, cross, tuck). Try lifting the stick gently to test grip.

    Clove hitch knot instructions (animatedknots.com)
  6. Make a loop that won’t slip: Tie a bowline around the ring or a stable object. Use the classic story (“the rabbit comes out of the hole…”) if helpful.

    Bow line knot instructions (animatedknots.com)

Variations

  • Shoelace Bootcamp: Practise bows on a spare trainer or cardboard “shoe”.
  • Fort Builders: Use clove hitches to secure blanket corners to chair legs (gently, no climbing).
  • Knot Sorting Game: Mix real knots and ask, “Which one joins? Which one stops?”
  • Nature Tie: On a walk, tie gentle loops to bundle sticks or make a leaf garland (no tight ties on living plants).
  • One-Hand Challenge: Older kids try tying an overhand or figure-eight with one hand.
  • Rescue the Teddy: Build a safe “hoist” with a bowline loop to lift a soft toy onto a chair.

Why It’s Great

  • Fine motor strength – Twisting and pulling builds finger dexterity for everyday tasks.
  • Problem-solving – Following sequences encourages patience and focus.
  • Real-world skills – Useful for shoelaces, camping, crafts, and quick fixes at home.
  • Confidence boost – Small wins add up as knots “click” into place.
  • Together time – Calm, side-by-side coaching nurtures connection.

Safety Tips

⚠️ Any activity with ropes or cords is a potential choke hazard! Be very careful doing this with younger children and follow the safety tips below.

  • Supervise closely with cords and keep lengths short (30–60 cm) for practice.
  • Never tie anything around a neck or body.
  • Avoid tying to moving parts or high places.
  • Use soft rope and clear floor space to reduce trip hazards.
  • Adults handle scissors and check knots used in play can be untied easily.
  • Disassemble knots after the activity.

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